How it works

From joining to your
first conversation.

Nobody browses on Mehram. The system introduces you to a small number of people who genuinely fit, and your family is involved from the first step. Here is every stage, in order.

1Join
2See who matches
3Add your wali
4Verify
5Introductions
6Photo
7Proposal
8Talk
1Join

Four questions, then we stop asking.

Phone number and a code — no password to remember. We ask where you live, your sect, your age and your marital status, and then we show you something before asking for anything else.

Country and city pickers you can type into, with the common ones pinned
Works whether you are in Lahore, Dubai, Birmingham or Toronto
Everything saves as you go, so you can stop and come back
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Step 3 of 5
Which country
do you live in?
🔍  Search any country…
Most chosen
🇵🇰 Pakistan
🇦🇪 United Arab Emirates
🇸🇦 Saudi Arabia
🇬🇧 United Kingdom
🇺🇸 United States
2See who matches

We tell you what we found before you finish.

Most apps make you fill in forty fields on faith. We show you the real count of verified people who match your criteria, where they are, and how many already have a wali registered.

Every number is a live count from our own database
If the answer is zero, we say so plainly
Nothing has been charged at this point

If your city is new to Mehram, we tell you that instead of showing you profiles that are not really there — and we let you wait for free.

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Good news
We already have
people for you
0
verified women in Lahore match
what you have told us
104
Sunni (Hanafi)
24–30
Age range
89
Have a wali
Finish your biodata to meet them
About four minutes. Stop whenever you like.
3Add your wali

One tap on WhatsApp, and they are in.

Your wali gets their own account. Proposals reach them before they reach you, they can read your conversations, and they join your calls. Adding them is recommended rather than required.

Invite by WhatsApp link, a six-digit code read over the phone, or a QR code
Father, mother, brother, sister, uncle, aunt — or anyone you trust
Nine out of every hundred families only accept proposals where a wali is registered
You can change or remove them at any time

They can decline a proposal on your behalf, but they can never accept one for you. They see your photographs, and nobody else’s.

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Your wali
Who will review
your proposals?

Nine of your 142 matches only accept proposals where a wali is registered.

Their name
Imran Mian
Relationship
FatherMotherBrotherSister
Invite on WhatsApp
Read them a code instead
4Verify

Everyone here is a checked, real person.

Your phone and your CNIC or passport are required for everyone, and the ID is what earns you the verified badge that families look for. A face scan is optional.

Documents are reviewed by a person, not a machine
They are deleted once your profile is approved
They are never shown to other members and never appear on your profile
Verified profiles receive introductions first
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Verification
✓
Phone number
Verified
2
CNIC or passport
Required · earns the verified badge
3
A scan of your face
Optional · 30 seconds
🛡 Documents are reviewed once, then deleted. Never shown to members.
Verified profiles receive introductions first.
5Receive introductions

Three a day, chosen for you.

There is no feed and no search. Each introduction shows age, city, sect, education, profession and family type — no name and no photograph.

The match works in both directions: you meet her criteria and she meets yours
Some days there are none, and we say so rather than filling the screen
Profession is shown as a category, never a workplace
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Assalamu alaikum
Ali
Search active
We’re looking for
your match
6
Match your criteria
148
Reviewed this week
Today's introduction
1 of 3
27 · Lahore
Sunni · Practicing
ID verified

Wali registered
EducationMaster's
ProfessionHealthcare
🔒 Name and photos unlock after her wali approves.
Not suitable
Request photo
6Ask to see her photo

Looking before proposing, the way it should be.

Photographs are hidden by default. You ask, she decides — and if she agrees, you both see each other at the same moment. She is never the only one exposed.

Capped at three requests a day, so nobody is flooded
A decline is silent, with no reason given and no re-asking for 30 days
She can withdraw access afterwards without you being told
Screenshots are blocked throughout

If someone chooses the most open photo setting, their photograph appears on the card straight away and this step is skipped.

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Photo request
27 · Lahore
Sunni · Practicing
Wali registered
Visible to you only
She agreed to share. Yours was shared with her at the same moment.
Not suitable
Send proposal
A decline is silent. He is not told why and cannot ask again for 30 days.
7Send a proposal

Your wali, then hers, then her.

A proposal is not a like. It carries a short note addressed to her wali, and it travels through two families before a single message can be sent.

Your wali approves first
Her wali reviews and can decline without troubling her
She decides last, and her yes is the only one that opens a chat
You can see exactly which stage it is at, at any time
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Where it stands
27 · Lahore
✓
You sent the proposal
Tuesday, 11:20
✓
Your wali approved
Tuesday, 14:05
3
Her wali is reviewing
Sent Tuesday, 14:06
4
She decides
5
Chat opens with both walis
⏰ Families take their time. We’ll notify you either way.
8Talk, with both families present

A chat that nobody has to wonder about.

Once she accepts, a conversation opens with both walis in it. They can read everything from the first message, and either family can start a voice or video call that both walis join.

No disappearing messages and no hidden side channels
Phone numbers, emails and links are blocked automatically
Calls happen inside Mehram, so no number is ever exchanged
The connection closes the moment the call ends
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👁 Both walis can read this conversation as it happens
Ayesha
Wa alaikum assalam. My father has read your biodata.
Jazakumullah khair for accepting the proposal.
TARIQ · HER WALI

Would your parents be free to speak this weekend?

Yes uncle, Saturday evening suits them well.
A message was blocked because it contained a phone number.
Write a message
The wali’s side

What it looks like for them.

Your wali is not a spectator. They have their own screen, their own decisions to make, and clear limits on what they can do.

Proposals reach them first

Nothing is shown to their dependent until they have reviewed it. If they decline, nobody is troubled by it.

They read conversations live

As they happen, not a weekly summary. Both sides know the wali is there from the first message.

They cannot accept for anyone

A wali can stop a proposal, but the decision to say yes is always their dependent’s. They are never shown anyone else’s photographs.
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Assalamu alaikum
Imran
Needs your review
A proposal for
Sana
From a verified family in Lahore. Sent 2 hours ago.
29 · Lahore
Sunni · Practicing
ID verified
EducationMBA, LUMS
ProfessionTechnology
Sana has not seen this yet. She sees it only if you approve.
Decline
Approve
☎Calls

Voice and video, with both walis on the line.

Either family can start a call inside Mehram. Both walis join from their own devices, and no phone number is exchanged at any point.

Everyone in the call is named, with their role
The connection closes when the call ends
Meeting times can be proposed and agreed in the chat
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🛡 Wali-supervised call
AT
Abdullah Tanveer
Ringing · 00:05
In this call
YouConnected
Imran · your waliConnected
Tariq · her waliJoining
No phone numbers are exchanged. The connection closes when the call ends.
What is shown, and when

Nothing is revealed all at once.

Stage 1 — the introduction

Age, city, sect, practice level, education, profession category, height, marital status and family type. No name. No photograph.

Stage 2 — the photo

Only if she agrees to your request, and only to you. Revealed to you both at the same moment, and revocable at any time.

Stage 3 — wali approval

Her first name and full biodata unlock, and a chat opens with both walis present.

Never shown, at any stage

Your phone number, your exact area, your employer, your identity documents and your payment details.

Ready to begin?

Creating your biodata, verifying and adding your wali are all free. You pay only once we have introductions ready for you.

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